Fed me so much bullshit that it actually made it easier for me to move on.

Turned out to be well known by many people for her disrespectful and deceitful behaviours. Putting on a mask assuming i wouldnt know much about her before we got together.

All the "values" she claimed to have rarely matched her actions in reality.

Was always worried i may talk badly about her if we ever broke up and how she doesnt talk badly about former partners out of respect, after we broke up, she spoke badly about me to anyone that would lend her an ear including my own friends feeding each group a different manipulated version of the truth.

The "you dont have to worry about them" exes she kept tabs on social media and spoke very badly about claiming they were chasing her and how she wasnt interested in are the same ones she's getting back in touch with (both at the same time). A third ex she walked around having his birthday as her phone/card pin code, all were lied about.

Her and her father claimed they would return the wedding ring when i didnt even bother asking for it initially, later on her dad stopped answering my calls and messages and blocked me when i cut all contact with her on social media and never returned it.

In hindsight as bad as it sounds, the pandemic turned out to be a blessing by delaying our wedding.