What's not as bad as everyone says?

So without the added document you guys couldnt have raised the family and live in harmony together?

Dont answer that, I know the answer is no, because even if you did, no one in your surrounding will accept it, marriage is just an easy psychological thing to tie up all the loose ends.

Glad it worked out for you guys, mine went all meme on me and gained a tone of weight while screaming she is happy and I cant really be selfish and demand she stay a healthy weight and attractive like I when I first married her. The emotional trauma caused by trying to navigate that landmine has put me off marriage and building a family in general. Happy single now, 8 billion people, no one will notice if I just do girlfriends with no kids for life.

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