this is what my partner told me when we went on a first few dates, i asked their reason and they said they just didn’t want one but they really liked me and they still wanted to hook up, no denying the chemistry because there was so much and i felt like i already liked them after we hooked up but i said “no thanks, find someone else” i went on about my life, no contact, i respected their wishes they respected mine and i left them alone. after a few weeks they came running back telling me “you know i’ve met no one else like you so let’s try it out” we’ve been together since. but here’s the thing i’ve been in situations like this before too with other people who said the same things and i stayed in hopes to change their minds only leading me to a heartbreak and insecurity. i told myself to stop waiting around for people and allow what i deserve. you can reassure them that you would love to have a deeper connection and a relationship but if they insist they don’t want a relationship then leave them be. if you’re asking this question you’re possibly not mature enough to stay just friends with them. hold your head high and respect their wishes and go out and get what you deserve. don’t wait around for anyone. especially when they are clear on what they want. yes some people can change their minds but that’s on their own free will. you can’t change a mind that’s already made tho so keep that in mind too. i shared my story because i hope it helps you understand that it could work out and also it couldn’t work out but don’t let it weigh you down on the should’ve could’ve would’ve because if it’s meant to be yours it will happen.