Why do you feel you need to offer them anything more than your company? Money, looks, height, job etc all doesn't matter. Just find girls you like talking to, and if they keep talking to you, they probably like you back. Keep it simple. And I guarantee there will always be a better option than you for her. But you have to realize that there will also always be a better girl for you than the one your will in some way. But grass is greener where you water it. Find one you like and build. I understand how you feel, but any self hating stuff saying your not good enough, or that she's out of your league will just push them away. Remember they are nothing special, just a normal human, treat them as such. From what I've read, I don't think you're ready to date. Think you should take some time, find new hobbies, go out and do stuff you never do and get out of your comfort zone. Find happiness in being alone. Trying to get in a relationship to bring yourself happiness is just setting yourself up for failure