YTA

It seems like your doing this out of spite since ur jealous ur wife found someone to love. Why are u meddling in your wife business buy asking so many questions abt the wife and this guy relationship? Your keep mentioning how a guy living with your children is unsafe which is not, the children says how their happy with it. Under one reddit post u said how u assume the guy has some motive cause why would he with ur wife. I DONT KNOW MAYBE HE ACTUALLY LOVES HER AND THE KIDS AND NOT ALL STRANGERS ARE NOT FINE WITH THEIR PARTNER HAVING KIDS.

Also u and your dad can't take care of the kid both as are disabled so you both can't even do what the kids wants to do . What going to happen when the children who can drive move out? Who going to drive the other kid to school. You cant even make the house clean enough for the kids and it so filthy your wife had to call cps. You obviously can't take care of your kids and your kids don't even like staying in your house. This custody was out of spite

I hoos u lose this custody case