I just want everyone to be clear on the difference between body-shaming (e.g., making universal statements about the preferability of one type of body presentation)--which is just wrong--and having body-type preferences (liking slim/athletic and manicured body hair). We'd never shame anyone for being fat, for example, but we'd also not play with anyone past a certain height/weight ratio. Two very different things, in terms of moral valence.est, abdomen, and trim my pubic hair. She has almost no hair by nature, but as a redhead, she sees a trimmed bush as a competitive differentiator. But we basically do what works for us and hope we can find people that are reciprocally attracted to us.

I just want everyone to be clear on the difference between body-shaming (e.g., making universal statements about the preferability of one type of body presentation)--which is just wron--and having body-type preferences (liking slim/athletic and manicured body hair). We'd never shame anyone for being fat, for example, but we'd also not play with anyone past a certain height/weight ratio. Two very different things, in terms of moral valence.