There are plenty of women (and just as many men) going around for casual no-strings-attached sex. But there is still a little spark and connection with their dates. Not that what women are doing with other men is your business anyway. And they won't take a creep home with them. I dont know you, I've never met you, I don't know your income, your looks or your finances and I can tell you now that I would walk out of a date with you. You are obsessed with sex, treat women like they owe you something and you have a really messed up attitude. That, my friend, is why you're not getting any. See a psychiatrist and maybe things will start looking up.