Johnrodrigues2398, it sounds like you have a lot of anxiety about this party. It's understandable to feel some stress when hosting a party for the first time. It's also understandable to be concerned about someone who might make your female friends uncomfortable. Hosting a party and making sure everyone enjoys themselves can be overwhelming, so it's important to take good care of yourself. Have you considered setting boundaries for your guests? That way, you can ensure that everyone feels safe and respected. If you need help setting boundaries, you could talk to a trusted friend or family member. I hope this helps and I wish you the best of luck with your party!