If you don't like how you look, go to a gym or public park if you can't afford a gym, and work out and eat well. Just try it. Just see what happens when you put the effort in for a few days a week for a month and if nothing happens then at least you tried.

Sometimes talking to a therapist helps us actualize what we're actually thinking when we say, I hate my face, my nose, my eyes. For some, its a very good investment.

If you don't feel better about your looks, and therapy doesn't help, use that work out to get physically strong enough for the recovery and save up some money for plastic surgery from a reputable physician.

I know plastic surgery gets a bad rep, but eff it. If it makes you feel better about yourself, go for it. Just do the research, mitigate your expectations, and see if you're willing to go through recovery. Get a bunch of opinions about what will work for you. Be realistic about expenses and what surgery can do for you.

If you can't afford one (I'm assuming you're American) do some research and find a physician abroad. Just make sure they're not using off brand materials, that they actually work in a hospital with an active medical license, and that they kept some kind of portfolio of their work. Try to find someone who got work done (that you think looks good, obviously) and ask them who their doctor was. Just say something along the lines of "Oh wow, you look especially amazing today! Say, did you ever get plastic surgery done? I'm looking for a doctor, can you recommend one?" It's not awkward unless you let it be awkward. Or they start crying.

If they claim they haven't ask if they know someone who has had work done and then go on ahead and ask that person and see if you can get them to talk abput their experience. People love to talk about themselves, usually, even if initially they're very self concious about the topic. Just don't press too hard if it looks like they'll be sad or mad. Make sure they know who told you so that you leave a trail of mayhem and destruction in your wake. You know, for the lulz.

Oh, and you never have to go with a recommended doc, ofc.

If you find no one, Youtube might be a fine start.

Not much you want to about being bald, unless you want to go with hair transplants (ouch) or rubbing minoxidil daily, but talk to a doctor. Maybe theres a hormonal remedy. But otherwise, try to rock the bald. Very few people get to choose their hair texture, or lack thereof. We all just try to make what we got work for us.

Being a virgin is fine. Just don't start every irl convo with that. It's usually not their business anyways what and who happens to your genitals anyways and if they press and you not interested sexually? Just respond "I know you want me, but we can never be. I have standards." And you do, of course. Don't dare lower your standards just because you think society wants you to lose your virginity. Don't think yourself lesser for your sexual experience or lack thereof. And don't you mind your genital size--anyone worth a damn WON'T make you feel like shit about it. Consider that a marker of character. If they bother you about that now you know to cut your losses and move on.

You are worth investing in yourself. Maybe you'll find nothing I say--about the plastic surgery or baldness or virginity status, etc--is relevant to you and you fundamentally disagree with me in everything. That is fine; just find something you are willing to do for yourself to get out of that slump. Just...take care