I am about to turn 32, and I think I look about my age, but last night I mentioned my upcoming birthday to two of the kids I volunteer (ages 11 and 8) and they were shocked that I am in my 30s, and the older one said they thought I was mid-late 20s. They have no filter so weren't trying to flatter me but also are kids so have no concept of age.

I think I can make myself look younger in an unflattering way - I can put my hair in double braids, thrown on jeans and a hoodie, and fit in on a college campus. But I am starting to get forehead lines, and the earliest crows feet. Also my body certainly is no 20-25 year old body even though I'm relatively fit. I'm fine with looking my age. If someone finds me attractive, cool; if they don't, that is also fine.