The last guy that told me he “deserved a chance” because he “is a nice guy”.

He was a high school dropout who complained about everything, had poor hygiene, was physically unhealthy looking (overweight, unmanaged acne, greasy), wasn’t working towards any education or career ambition, and still lived with his mom as a 25 year old man.

He called me a bitch after I turned him down.

It’s pretty simple. Become a desirable (and genuinely kind) man, and we women will want to be around you. This isn’t a charity though, and I do not feel bad for man children that want to continue living like they’re 12 when they’re in their twenties.