Enjoy your youth. Learn to be more confident in yourself as this is just an experience to learn from... *to either improve or to hinder yourself as you get older.

Learn to control the Emotional roller coaster as females do not truly understand what they want. You can be the one in control or you can be the one off to the side... either one is okay as long as you learn in a positive way.

Learn some NLP techniques so you can improve on your own self-worth as people will come and go in your lifetime. But truly what you have is only in the moment.

Live life but not at the expense of 'what-ifs'... that kind of life is really a downer. You do what you want to do... and take it as it comes. learn always to keep improving as your life is only the way you want it to be.

De-activate the old anchors from yourself and from others... become someone that they can be with and not worry about the past nor the future... Just be in the moment and be happy/angry/sad/etc. as these experiences are what living is all about.

Too much of an attachment to one or more emotions can/will limit your life. As you have experienced... and will continue to experience.

oh yea... look up The Secret if you want... it is always interesting what you can manifest in life.

**people fail to gain knowledge on the root cause of why people behave the way they do. 1. look at the relationship of their mother/father... of both yourself and other(s). 2. look at the past experiences of their lives... teachers/peers/siblings/etc 3. what kind of words they use. 4. are they comfortable with themselves. *are they looking for others to make them happy or are they able to be happy with themselves... within and outside--- for both. 5. understanding why one uses certain words/teachings. 6. you can use many different tools. - Bach flower essence - balancing the body using herbs - using crystals/semi-precious gems/stones - meditations - affirmations - becoming more aware of your own self.

Have fun and live life. Do not fear the what-ifs... just do it and if it works Yay... if it doesn't Yay... as you can learn to grow or break down from your own experiences.

*toot--toot... wafts the fresh scent of life.