Just looked those up. Parts of avoidant checks out, parts don't. Like my parents did not make me feel lacking in given care or fulfilling my needs. But they did instill the value of being self reliant. I think this sense affects my work as I find it difficult to delegate tasks. Socially I am a private person and I have a limited social circle of people I have known for a while. I don't tend to form friendships with colleagues or neighbours etc. I do value the "Personal Freedom" or "Me time" in relationships alot, like I do want to kick back and maybe play some video games without her trying to relate to it (Similarly I try to offer her a 'her time' too by not interfering when she is drawing). But I think I have kept a balance between Me-time and Us-time.