Let’s break things down nice and simple.

You say:

“NO ONE who loves you will ever recommend you change your appearance to please them. I hope you do the right thing because you deserve love at any size.”

My response is b-b-b-b-b-BULLSHIT. Because obviously there are circumstances where a loved one can and SHOULD ask you to improve your appearance. Anything from, “Throw out that shirt dumbass it has a hole in the side” to “you need to start working out babe” these are healthy and normal conversations to have in an adult relationships. If you’re unwilling to make the change, then be a big girl and tell him to fuck off.

Please stop spreading your insecurities all over everyone else’s lives. It sucks some guy was bad to you, it really does, but you don’t need to wrap up everyone on the planet in bubble wrap because YOU skinned your knee. Selfish fuck.