Willing to throw everything away is me saying that despite knowing she has bills to pay as well as I do, she doesn’t care if she’s on the borderline of getting fired and contributing in helping.

I never said she couldn’t buy herself anything. I encouraged it because that was her part on her income-tax. She gave me rude remarks and attitude when I told her to go to work because we couldn’t afford much if she just quit/got fired. Knowing we have a child we have to support for and for wanting things she knows we wouldn’t be able to afford for her lack of responsibility.

She wants to go on big vacations but if she quits now, we won’t be able to even afford going anywhere on one paycheck that doesn’t even pay all that much, mainly for bills.