Yes and that's the side Im most leaning towards. Especially if things dont go well with her fiance I want her to know I've been there and supportive since day 1. (She knows me and fiance don't care for each other.) But it's so exhausting to put in all of this effort for someone who doesnt appreciate it. And if I throw a bridal party it'll most likely be at my parent's house or my parent's cabin. If she meets them and is rude to them I will be fucking furious. If i throw them a party in general and she's rude to me I will be upset. Ive been treated like shit by enough people in my life and my cup is starting to spill over the edges. It's getting hard to grin and bare it. My feelings are valid too.