Always being told they’re not feeling the spark. What am I doing wrong?

Hey, I'm sorry for the hurt and rejection you have gone through. I've been on the receiving end too once or twice. It hurts like shit and promised myself to do whatever i can to prevent that. I also had to reject few people in this adventurous world of online dating and wished they asked me honestly what they did wrong and how they could improve. Some things are just irreparable, while other things can be fixed. For example - if the guy talks way too much, not giving me a chance to say something or when i say something he doesn't ask more questions about it he just says , "oh well" - always finding something negative to say about something i just said or in general being a negative, pessimistic person, or when a guy doesn't ask anything about me and my background - i understand there's a fine line between being nosey and just being curious, but i like it a lot when the other person asks good and genuine questions about me.

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