I've been dating for about 5+ years and I've been struggling to meet any men who want anything long-term. Please tell me there are men out there who feel otherwise.

This was the entire OP. You read that and interpreted it as "I've never met a single man who's told me he wants a long term relationship, and went straight to pointing out what she could be doing wrong.

I didn't jump to conclusions about her circumstances like you did, and knew, through my own experiences, that she could have meant what I mean when I say the same thing. That sometimes, through no fault of your own, you end up dating guys who are not honest about wanting something long term.

This isn't satisfactory at all, because you never answered where I blamed all men on earth for my prior dating bad luck or how I'm looking for love in all the wrong places.