Mine is unpopular too I guess. :{ I somewhat agree; almost every case of "soulmates" started out with people thinking they were crazy for jumping into it so soon. But some people just know that someone is meant to be there for a long time. Of course, if OP doesn't feel the same way then it's creepy, but I feel like OP is actually happy with his decision and is fighting against her logic right now. Totally natural but judging from her description, I feel like it's genuinely his intention to show commitment (especially since they were both already mutually receptive to being married), and not intended to be creepy. I mean, if he's creepy/weird, then so is OP!