It's funny that you quote that post. My narcissist mother set up my student loans under my fathers name with out informing me of the payments I would be making. She currently has them set for my entire pay check per month. She agreed to pay half so we could "get them out of the way" but in recent months she has proven to go against her word. Like I said I graduated with a bachelors in business and work at a bank. My parents don't even understand how my loans work. They are forcing me to pay something that's completely impossible for me at this time with my own ADULT bills each month including RENT. I clicked your post because I figured I could help with the "crazy mother who hates your SO" since my mom often hates my sisters SOs but I see why your mother hates your SO and I can see why she wants you off of your lazy ass.

I'm not perfect but at least I know when I'm wrong and I know what needs to get done to achieve my goals. You need to have long term AS WELL AS short term goals. SO GET A JOB!!

At least I'm having problems that I'm trying to resolve while dating someone my own age. He is the way he is because we grew up in different worlds but I'm not trying to jump into living with him and getting married before either of us has our LIVES figured out.

Good luck with all your shit. I have a full understanding of my life and my world and there are things I miss (which is why I turn to reddit) but for you to sit here and yell at everyone for telling you the SAME thing 100 times without realizing where you're wrong (even aside from the girlfriend) is why you're getting such a negative response from me. I think you need to reevaluate a few things before you go shitting on the woman who CAN kick you out the minute you try to sue her.