My SO's family hates me because I refused to baby him. His mother and father had dumped him on others his entire life, refusing to raise a man child I demanded he change and grow up.

His parents (divorced) took immense offence to this. I don't know why. They hate that I refused to support him, and then they hated me because I am Hispanic, and both my grandfather's came here illegally and worked exceptionally hard for citizenship. One served in WWII, the other factory worked for 50 years. My entire family has worked and had amazing success.

But they only honed in on how my grandfather's were here illegally. Not surprising considering the mother is on disability and welfare, despite her disease allowing her to work a desk job. Her new husband is the same ilk

His sister is a single mother meth addict who owes people money. She hates me alongside her mother, but mostly because I refused to give her money.

His father is a hoarder man child who lives in a literal bedroom in a terrible house and lost his job due to "everything being their fault not mine " I also refused to give him money. He was not allowed in my home. He came to my home and stole money.

They hate me. But look at them. What do I care such people look down upon me and my family when we have worked doubly hard as they have and all received proper education or job skills. My SO completely cut them out of his life and got his shit together.

I handle it by not caring. People like that are ignorant, and simple. They are blocked on all accounts and know better to no longer message me calling me a crazy, smelly, c word.

It's almost like they're a live Jerry Springer episode and I just like watching.