Thank you for posting this. I just got into the BDSM community as a 26 year old male sub and this is such helpful information to know. I am currently worshiping and serving a beautiful and powerful Mistress. From what I gather, it appears that this will hopefully be a long term relationship between me and her. Your story impacts me on a deep level because it only expresses just how real and significant a relationship between a domme and a sub can be. Regarding my domme, I will make sure to avoid any action that may appear even slightly rejecting or unsupportive. Im sorry you had to endure that experience. It annoys when men don’t keep to their word. Growing up I didn’t like all the toxic masculinity that surrounded me, but I absolutely connected with one concept that a man is only as good as his word. I’m touched that you place such value in us by explaining that you need us as well.
Thank you, and I hope you find someone much better than the fool who stood you up.