"it's laughable to sayy that the femdom community, and by extension BDSM community at large lacks acceptance" you're really as empty headed as you are a loudmouth, I never said "bdsm community" I meant people/humans at large. "tons" relative to what ? amount in the world vs a cit in middle of nowhere USA ? certainly, vs any other real prevalent fetish (for example maledom) ? not at all. according to sources available on wikipedia, in all bdsm researches only 8%-10% of women into bdsm have been found to be mostly or only into being dominant. "women have a much harder time finding good male partners" do you have any source for that or just took that out of your ass ? no need to answers considering the you post and your reply it's clearly the latter.