3. Ex FP came back and I don't know what to do

Ex FP came back and I don't know what to do

I'm just freaked out by how similar our situation is. I got back with my old FP a few months ago. When she first contact me I was ready to rage at her for all of the emotional abuse she thought she could pull on me just because I'm mentally ill. It ended a few months ago like I kind of predicted, it was very intense and on and off like you said. She was also looking for a bunch of forgiveness and I was needing the validation.

My advice? What I wish I had done and what looks might be best for you? Cut the contact now (and in the least dramatic way), if you can.

Feeling numb is the closest thing you have to recovery right now. I totally get that - the numbness of not having a fp has also helped me function a bit better

Think of how much your wellness will turn back if you get too deep into this and the relationship is severed again.

From my own experience, your resentment towards her for her treatment towards you is never going to go away, no matter how many sweet talks there are now.....

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