I mean I’m 24 and he’s 28. I never liked “cutesy” stuff even as a teen. I’m not affectionate and normally don’t fall for sweet talk. Something has definitely changed. Those emojis and pet names aren’t something I like. I was ignoring it because I was caught up what I cooked up in my head lol. I shouldn’t have

I only realised when my friend asked me to read back the conversation and tell me what I liked about it. All that happened was I noticed how he called me “baby” and similar. I shouldn’t have done an 180, feelings wise.

It’s been 5days and I’m not affectionate, I don’t understand how he’s so comfortable saying half the things he has. I didn’t reciprocate it but I definitely enjoyed it and got carried away. We haven’t even gone on a date yet. This is all texting and FaceTime.

Where do you think I’m going wrong? I don’t even notice when it’s happening. It’s that much worse if we go on dates.

Normally the guy plans it out and it takes longer to realise. Covid slowed it down dates-wise but the last guy was so much worse. I went on multiple dates with him. We’re still friends now but I got caught up so much. I might take a break.