Of course, as long as they were honest about it and we had a mutual attraction. I was a total shithead when I was young. I have many regrets about the way I treated people back then. I like to think that I have matured since then. At the very least, I have the ability to reflect on my behaviour, how terrible it was, and try to do better in the future.

Speaking for myself, I know that a large part of my behaviour was influenced by things like peer pressure and fear of damaging my reputation, even though I basically had none. I know that's not an excuse, but it might explain some of their behaviour as well. I expect many of these guys will deeply regret the things they've said and done as well, and the ones that don't aren't worth your time anyway.