The whole "there are no leagues" is complete bullshit.
Why? There is a DIRECT correlation between how attractive, successful, intelligent the women I go on dates are on the probability she will want to see me again.
This is independent of how our chemistry is, our connection is, how similar our values and interests are.
I go on dates with women whom I have little chemistry/values/common with who are not as attractive as their pics, less educated, etc. and THEY still wanto see me
and I go on dates with women whom I have a ton in common with, the connetion flows, who end up being stunners when they show up on dates...and they are lukewarm.
leagues and awareness of ones' own "place' ABSOLUTELY EXIST.