Yes this sub is sometimes toxic for a guy's mindset.

I'm not rich or wealthy and I've always had a good looking girlfriend.

Women want a man who's a man, who's masculine, who has goals, who takes care of himself, who tackles life with courage and adventure, and one who is romantic and knows how to treat a woman right.

I used to network with some wealthy guys. They didn't take care of themselves. They were awkward. And I couldn't imagine them swooping a woman off her feet and sparking desire. One time I was at a fancy restaurant with them, a table full of millionaires, and I was the only one at that table who wasn't wealthy. Yet they were looking at my girlfriend with envy.