My opinion is lack of routine. I can’t say exactly what goes on there or doesn’t go on simply bc I’m not there. But from what he says and what my daughter says and I can gather from a 2 year old, it’s very chaotic and it changes every night. He doesn’t stick to one routine and stay consistent with it. He just tries or does different things every time. Or she’ll be at his moms. Also, my daughter has said that he yells at her to go back to her room and lay down and she expresses that she cries “really loud” as she puts it until she falls asleep. I’ve asked where is daddy? And she says watching tv on the couch or in his room with his mate