Nothing I or anyone says can help. I am so very sorry a idiot your little girl. Life is not fair.

My 21 year old son died in 2018 of a brain hemorrhage. I am not the same person I was before. I died with him, or at least the person I was died with him.

I sobbed daily for about a year. Then it got harder. Now I am able to function, but it’s such a horrific reality that it doesn’t get better exactly. I am just better at managing it.

I am so very sorry you are one of us. The death of a child is like no other loss. People who compare other deaths to our grief at losing our children have no clue what they are saying even if they mean well.

Expect to undergo multiple changes in your life, in your relationships, and in everything. It’s a brutal life for us parents of the dead.

Be kind to yourself.