It is EXPONENTIALLY easier to imagine that I will go on a date this year if ONE human being expressed interest in me in the past compared to ZERO.
Sorry dude, but in order for that to happen you gotta be over average. If you're just a run of the mill average dude like the rest of us then you gotta create interest yourself. A girl being interested in you is not something that is likely.
It's like that for you, me and every average dude out there. But that being said, creating interest is in no way impossible .. end of day most of us start families. I did.
Key words are don't be needy, don't be entitled and demanding .. and don't shower girls with feeling before you've been intimate.