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Ladies of Reddit who aren't ready for children - what was your SO's reaction to pregnancy scare

If I’m having sex with someone, then I like a few things clarified at the beginning. STD/STI appointments, contraception, relationship status, and abortion stance. It took me a few years to be able to clarify this with my partners, but now I consider it a rule to ask.

The current guy I’m seeing is on the same page as me, which is a great change. In the past, a lot of guys have said, “Your body your choice. Not up to me. Don’t tell me.” Or, “Definitely having an abortion.” I don’t like being told what to do, and I don’t want a partner who wouldn’t care. I like to discuss this like an adult and know each other’s initial preference.

I’ve had a guy immediately (like throw on clothes and go to CVS in 5 minutes) pick up Plan B after a condom broke. He was freaking out. Although he claimed to be a feminist and all, he never once asked about my stance on the issue.

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