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Losing Interest After Sex
No ... They got laid, that in it self is plenty of success.
Ghosting isn't that crappy as rumor has it, but you can just not write them and if he insist on your attention then hit him with "After sleeping on it, I don't feel we're a match" maybe followed by the best of wishes and other politeness. Note the structure. "Feel" can't be argued with. "Match clearly states that there is nothing wrong with neither him nor you. It's the interplay that is wrong. That is it. Just keep repeating that and version of that and then if you have to ghost. "Sorry, but that is how I feel", "Unfortunately, we just not a match". Don't discuss or similar. just keep it closed like this. "I don't feel we're a match".