You are right, the grandfather who abused my father shouldn't ever have an effect.

When my father did what he did, he left this abusive man in control. He was able to lie to social services solely due to the mental health gap that my fathers suicide lefr with my mother.

The grandfather who abused my father, then gained custody for a temporary period of me and my younger brother.

Do you even want to hear what I did just to make sure my younger brother was not abused? Who knows, I don't remember all of it.

But you genuinely will say that he had the right to end his life? Without a single shred of regret? Yet I can confirm, the man himself wouldn't ever forgive himself. He would say how foolish it was. He would say that with perseverance, there were alternatives.

Mental health is not an unchangeable rock.

Mental illness should be cured. Suicide based on mental health issues rather than physical issues that have you on your death bed are not justifiable if you have children.

It is one thing if you have no dependants. Yer they are called defendants for a reason.