men, what makes a girl interesting?

Buckle up because I'm about to go in on this one.

You really don't have to be some kind of interesting athletic sociable super woman to be attractive. Most people are fucking boring so its not so much coming across as interesting over coming across as attractive and non-insecure.

Girls get matches easily, but most issues with women dating in general is finding quality matches.

Especially the non-insecure thing as fuckbois will latch onto that pretty quickly and you'll be sitting at home with your girlies wondering why you can't get good dates over a bottle of red or four.

I get a lot of quality matches and have been on a lot of dates with some interesting girls, so my tips especially for online dating would be:

  • Number 1 is don't be a bitch. Don't have a checklist of reasons why you won't talk to certain guys in your bio (e.g. don't be a fuckboi, no heys, 6ft only etc). you don't want your first impression to be that if you're looking for a more quality guy.
  • Avoid the joke bios as it comes across like you're not taking this seriously, and with that, guys won't take you seriously.
  • Clear pictures of just you, so I can figure out which one you actually are. I've passed girls simply because I can't be sure which one they actually are in your 20+ group dorm photos.
  • this goes for the cheerleader effect. Don't post pictures next to your attractive friends. We know why you do it. It comes across as insecure.
  • No alcohol or smoking shots. Its generic. And you're really not cool.

  • Avoid the dressed up at dinner shots as well as the graduation photos

  • Be normal. Have one nice smile photo. Use a filter if you're that insecure about it

  • Don't be so damn picky. But don't just take it from me.

  • And finally a bit of cleavage or a body-con (no matter your size) always helps... Just one though. not every photo as that gives off the wrong signal.

Happy online dating!

And hey presto you're likely to get quality matches,

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