I had an SO who was very much into power dynamics and pretty much insisted on it. I was curious and decided to give it a try. So we ordered one of those small (like 5x1?) dildos but . . . it pretty much felt like nothing. I think she enjoyed the control aspect, but to me it was pretty meh. I mean, I felt something but not what I would call either pleasure or pain, just . . . there.

A few months later we had been to some stupid party where she won a ridiculously huge dildo. Something like 10 or 11 inches long, maybe 2 inches around. It was seriously massive looking. There had been a little drinking involved and she started joking about using it on me. Welp, when we got home that night she did . . . and holy christ! I guess I just needed something bigger, because that hit all the right spots. After that, it became a pretty regular thing with us, maybe even too regular. I liked it, but she really liked it.