I’m not physically week I just don’t want to look like a body builder, I think body building or having large muscles is general is content for r/ATBGE. Not very practical for an office job either lol

Oh looks like I confused you for the original commentator. Either way, you're too fixated on the huge muscles. The point was to highlight to him that those qualities aren't inherent. People work for their physical strength. Forget the bodybuilder talk that obviously wasn't the point

I’m sorry that you feel insecure about your masculinity to the point that you need large muscles, I’m not sure that’s the right attitude to have when working out.

I don't have large muscles and I'm not insecure about my masculinity. I don't buy into this "weakness is strength, and strength is weakness" doublethink. It's a cheap cop out for the weak. Being masculine or aiming for masculinity is not weakness.