So long story short, girlfriend got ossified last night and in her drunken stupor, she tripped a girl in the bar. Instead of apologizing, my GF said: "You get what you deserve, c--t."
So your girlfriend is a jerk when she is drunk? Does she often do this? With how this story ended--her calling the girl a C-word, then blaming you for not "having her back" it sounds like she doesn't take responsibility for anything. At all.
I don't think I could stay with someone like that. But that is your choice if you want to play Drinker's Keeper with your girlfriend.
This...
The girl sprang up to have words with her and a guy she was with stepped between them. My GF scratched at the guys face and actually took a huge chunk of skin out of his cheek with her nails. He closed hand punched her right in the mouth, it's a miracle she didn't lose teeth. She went down in a heap.
Added to...
Bouncers came in, dragged us all out, cops were waiting, paramedics there shortly after. I and the girl who was tripped talked the cops out of arresting either of them and promised we would of our separate ways, by some miracle it worked. Both guy and my GF got checked out by the paramedics and we were released.
... would make me reconsider the whole relationship. I hope this becomes an "Ex did something stupid" story and you move on. If this was a movie, you meet Trippy at a party, laugh about your dumb exes, and marry. Then a cute puppy would join your little family and all would be good.
Instead, you are at the point in the movie where you are dating Veruca Salty. The moment the police are involved in a violent altercation [my partner starts] that is when I am done. She literally tried to scratch some guys face off. What makes you think she won't do that to you one day? If she is willing to call people "cnts" and scratch strangers up... it's not long before she turns on you. I know this from experience.
I'm sort of scared of her.
The fact that you have to say the above at all makes me think you need to dump and walk away. I get that she is your girl and you have stuck your penis and heart in her, but she is dumb, violent, and takes no responsibility. In fact, she wants you to take it all- the blame, her anger issues, the violence, and the attitude.
No sex is that good. No one is that kind or loving if they do that.
The truth is she started all of it and I don't want to have her back when she was clearly in the wrong. The guy didn't do anything wrong and I can't imagine hitting someone blindside like it would have been.
And then you added:
I don't know what to do here, she's always full of drama when we go out (my friends call us Meegan and Andre it happens so often) but this is the first time it's gotten physical. Any advice?
The fact that your friends nicknamed her Meegan tells me all I need to know. I know that skit. I know that type. You need to leave before you die in a desert trying to return her coat. I mean, Meegan tries to get a guy to eat glass in one of the skits. Why are you with that girl?