First off, I do get laid well and often by my loving gf of 10 years. I got a pretty sweet BJ last night after she got out of the shower and put something sexy on. That is a far cry from this time last year where if I had suggested the same she would have replied "do I have to?"

Second, I don't really care how im "recieved". Being able to speak your mind freely and with confidence and without worrying about hurting people's feelings is another trait women find attractive in men, and are unattracted to the opposite. I also understand that people are individuals, to a point. We have higher level though processes but we're still animals and have many similar behaviors. Do you really think that every single woman is a special snowflake who has her own unique set of traits she finds attractive? This is not true. All women find the same traits attractive. Confidence, physical strength and attraction, power...etc. the only differences exist in how these traits are displayed. Some women are attracted to a muscular dark haired man, some women are attracted to a muscular light haired man, but all women are attracted to muscular men. Do you really think if you put channing Tatum and Steve Buscemi in a room with a bunch of women, you would get a 50/50 split between the two? No, every woman there would want to fuck channing tatum. Just like if you put a hot 20yr old in a room with a fat 40yr old all the men will want the 20yr old.

The world isn't the nice and fair place a lot of people want to believe it is. There are winners and losers, just as there are throughout the entire animal kingdom. For men, it takes hard work to become a winner, but the rewards are well worth it.