My wife changed after we had 3some a few weeks back and I don't know what to do to make it right

I never said l bi people want threesomes? I definitely understand that that's a really inaccurate stereotype. In no way do I think that's the case I'm also bi and I'm also very big on communicating and understanding/respecting boundaries from the very beginning of a relationship. I said above that I am polyamorous, but with that being said, I e mostly been in monogamous relationships (sexually). Being poly doesn't necessarily mean you are down to hook up any more than it does if you're bi. I know a lot of poly people are interested in multiple sexual connections, but for me personally it's more about having emotional connections than sexual connections. Just because I can feel love for more than one person, doesn't mean that I want to sleep with more than one person, and just because someone wants to have sex with multiple people doesn't mean they have a romantic attraction to multiple people, and that's what polyamory is. I'm just pointing out the fact that not all people who are okay with more open relationships are polyamorous. Polyamorous relationships are a type of open relationships, but not all open relationships are polyamorous.

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