You are giving very good advice here. I thought about this, tried to place myself in her shoes, but the reality is that I could never do this. I could never take my child and leave her alone for an undetermined period of time. I could not possibly ever do this. It’s too selfish. I think that can only come from a place of disrespect. So as you see, I have difficulties accepting that.

If I see this as coming from a place of disrespect, you can understand how I don’t think the marriage is worth it.

Anyway... I am keeping myself away. I will give her time. If she takes too long then I will have to proceed with my legal options to guard my rights as a father.