Nobody says obese/overweight people should be disrespected. Yes obesity is bad, all medical research and stats indicate that. Saying that obesity is bad or unhealthy doesnt mean obese people are bad people, they cant be personally judged, yet obesity is bad. It's like smoking and smokers, smoking is bad, so if I say that smoking is bad or unhealthy, that doesnt mean am trying to promote hate towards smokers. Yes it's harder for some people to lose weight and many people have overweightness-related diseases, like people having hormonal issues or problems with their thyroid gland, yes some people have higher metabolism/aerobic respiration rates than others, that doesnt mean they are bad or evil, it's a problem they are facing in their everday lives, and I wish they get better with what they are struggling with, yet that doesnt dismiss that fact that their obesity is corelated with severe health consequences such as cardiovascular diseases, strokes, diabetes or high cholesterol rates, that is called science. There's no secret

That simple!