Obviously you should never be preassured into something you don`t want to do or digusts you. That always needs to be rule Nr.1 when it comes to anything relating sex.

For the anal always hurts part. Sure some people may not like it at all and that`s totally okay but I think for a lot of people it comes down to doing it the wrong way, to fast and without the right preperation.

I could never enjoy anal sex before, I liked the feeling of itself but penetration with a penis aways hurt. Until I tried it with my now boyfriend and realized it absoluetly doesn`t need to hurt if you do it right. Before every time I tried it was because I was preassured into it and when you`re not relaxed it most definetly will hurt. Not only did it hurt during the act but I also felt weird and kind of sore afterwards.

With my now boyfriend I told him that I like anal stimulation in general but never had actual penetration without pain or at least uncomfort. He told me that if I liked to try we can just play around and see how it goes and then maybe try sex if I wanted. So he gave me complete control and no preassure at all and it was actually amazing. No pain at all and no soreness afterwards.