Yea that’s disrespectful af. Me (m29) all eyes on my wife. Especially when women seem to have extra. I chose my wife, and that’s who I always look at. Yea as men we want to look because we’re visual but it’s a discipline that I’ve learned and a love I have for my wife And vice versa. Men are just as insecure if our spouse would look at some one else. Like wtf! What am I chop liver?!

Not to put any thoughts in your head but if you’re looking then what else would cross your mind to do? And it sounds real insecure and I’m not insecure personally but it’s just a respect thing. You’re out with me, so all of you has to be with me. Attention and all. Because my wife tends to ease drop in other convos while out at dinner and I see her and I’m just like “babe! Stop being over at that table, we’re right here at this table.”

It’s one thing to be aware of your surroundings, but it’s another to stay stuck or go out of your way to be having your attention somewhere else.