All I wanted to know was whether someone else had shared my experience, and how long it lasted. I wasn't trying to be confrontational. I came here for help and looking for shared experiences on a sub that is for people dealing with problems resulting from quitting k.

I thought that it was safe.

In all honesty, what I felt like I got was a half a dozen people saying "You really ought to get seen about that, but no pressure" and a mod saying "Because you aren't listening to us, it's all on you, and if you post here again about an issue like this, it will be removed. You have a responsibility to your wife and kids [i have neither] so get over yourself, and it's your own fault if you don't do what we said.'' I know that's not what you meant in some ways, but it's basically what it amounted to and came off as.

If I had wanted to know "is this a serious problem", then that's what i would have asked. I know it's serious. I just don't care. I really couldn't care less if I drop dead from liver failure in a few months. It would be faster and more humane than the diseases that are currently killing me. All I wanted to know was "Has anyone else had this experience", and I got a response that made me feel like I'm not welcome in this place.

I get it. I don't feel welcome anywhere, and I should have known better than to open my mouth and spread my badness. But you may want to pull the reins a bit for the next girl or guy.

I don't even think it's possible for someone to sue you, or reddit, for advice like that. The legal system in my country, at least, doesn't work like that. You can't just sue someone because they told you something that turned out not to be true.

Either way, I won't come back, so you don't have anything to worry about getting sued or things like that. I did not mean to "throw a dark time back in your face"...i was explaining why i wasn't following your suggestions. But it's fine. I get it. I'm sorry i made the thread and it won't happen again. my apologies for speaking.