First of all, try some self-reflection. Other women telling you you're attractive or have a good personality doesn't mean those things are true - sometimes we lie, when we want to let people down easy or because the women in your life don't want to hurt you, or maybe the women in your life are biased and wrong. Why should a woman actually be interested in you? Do you bring anything to the table?

Second of all, if you want actual advice, give us something to work with - otherwise all you're gonna get is the same generic shit you can get by googling 'dating advice', or people casting wide assumptions because that's the best they can do. So far, all I know about you is you're a defensive prat who whines when he's told something he doesn't like, and someone has little discernable interests beyond posting comments on pornography. Apart from being useless information for giving you dating advice, those being the only things we know about you doesn't exactly make me want to help you be successful... And since we're all strangers on the internet, we have no obligation to do so.

Finally, most women are not intimidated by attractive men. We are, however, very attuned to creeps - and hate to break it to you, but you probably are one. Defend it anyway you like, but at the end of the day, even as most women accept and many even enjoy porn, most of us don't want the guys who regularly post comments in amateur porn subreddits and other such behaviour. Unfortunately for you, we can sense that guy a mile away. Try leveling yourself up.