We’ve been having more sex, and having fun with it. We went to a department store yesterday and I brought him to the lingerie section and asked what he liked. At first he said he likes everything but eventually got him to be specific - something red, short, and silky. So now I’m looking forward to getting a little Mrs. Claus nightie for his bday.

Also came clean about the flirtationship I started. He took is really well, said he understands where I’m coming from but doesn’t want me to kiss anyone. Still, he isn’t actually super upset about me flirting, as long as it doesn’t escalate. He even said I could stay platonic friends with the person I’ve been flirting with (which obviously isn’t going to happen). Husband hasn’t brought it up again and is completely over it.