I think there is a way to revive. Maybe don’t narrate it. Don’t plan it. Just put a daily effort into him, like touching him and affirmations to him. Do some special things like light candles. Order a new purfume or buy one you used to wear. My favorite is Dolce Gabanna Light Blue. Tell him that his body looks good to you. Build this up. If you both want it, I believe you can work to make this happen. He will understand that you had a low point and he will want to be supportive of you if he loves you and you communicate the issues to him. You are both still together and that’s a positive. Build on doing good every day. I hope this helps. I’m HLF and my husband is LLM. I would be so happy to know my husband is motivated and communicated the issues. Your effort means so much.