My daughters mom had four children by four different men. She was on welfare and collected child support so she never had to work a day of her life for nearly thirty years.

I was the second father and there were no warning signs at the time that she was a welfare addict.

Anyhow, I fell behind by an amount equal to three years of support but I was fortunate and able to pay off the debt by the time my daughter turned 19.

I had an old friend who had a two kid in high school. He ended up dropping out to get a job to support the kids and ended up having a third after.

His ex ended up cheating on him so he moved out and ended up having to pay so much support for those three kids that he wasn't able to pay his bills so he moved back in with his mother at the age of 23. Paying that much support killed his motivation to work and he ended up not working.

That dude should have kept his dick in his pants.