Seriously? You think it's unjust that people don't want to date you?

Yes I think it's unjust that I can't find a date when plenty of awful women, including some of the women I've tangled with on this thread, can find a date, yes.

I just got done responding to a woman in this thread who among other things shamed the hobbies of millions of women, shamed me for being smart, shamed me for defending myself, blamed me for other people drama queening at me, and is in a relationship. While I'm not. Despite never in my life being that shitty to anyone.

Damn straight that's unjust.

I didn't say that being nice makes you less deserving of a relationship. I said that it alone does not make you deserving of a relationship.

Then we go over to: "What on Earth could ever make an asshole better than someone who treats people decently?"

How in the fuck can you believe that someone is obligated to date you just because you are kind? What are your views on consent? Do you not believe it exists?

Just questioning why nobody questions assholes deserving to receive consent for a relationship or wanting to receive consent but everyone suddenly loses their shit if a decent person asks why they have a harder time getting consent than the asshole and loses their shit if a decent person wants to receive consent.

I mean, you can reframe the matter as a way to dodge answering it as many times as you like, but I'm still going to simply apply the same reframing to my question and expect you to answer it.

First, maybe they aren't the assholes you assume they are.

Mmm, nope. Women who abuse their man about his hobbies are objectively assholes. Women who abuse their man in general are assholes. Women who refuse to do anything around the household are objectively assholes. Women who refuse to give any emotional support to their man are objectively assholes. Women who gold dig and expect to sit around and be taken care of are... well, maybe I'll downgrade this one to "really tacky".

My aunt-in-law is definitely an asshole; literally nobody in my mom's family can stand her.

Two, maybe you aren't nearly as nice as you think they are

Nope, I very definitely treat people nicely, try to help and support people, try to do the right thing, etc.

I'm very definitely objectively nicer than the women I've tangled with in this thread since I have never in my entire life treated another person the way they treated me.

and I'm pretty sure you are an asshole, considering you think that people literally owe you sex.

I'm objectively nicer than you, since I've never in my entire life flat out lied about what someone said.

...I'm at least objectively smarter, since it's not very smart to lie about something where people can actually go back and read that I never said that.

You, woman, are out of your fucking mind. You honestly believe that a man owes you sex and a relationship because you are kind to him.

Again, I continue to be irritated at people calling me a bad person when I have never lied about what was said. Do you people have no shame?